Michigan teen dating violence survivor stories
He would not give up even the slightest bit of control.
Like many 16-year-olds, Sophia was not thinking about the role power and control can play in a relationship.
The marriage soon came to an end, but not before Brackman entered the Naomi Davis Shelter House many times.
She was trying to make her marriage work, but she ultimately realized it could never be what she had dreamed.
I happily took on the task of making him feel loved and supported no matter what, it was me who was going to show him unconditional love.
Our relationship started as a dream, we were young and thought I was in love. Yes we were obsessed with each other, I knew that drove my parents crazy, I wanted to be with him 24/7, and he with me.
“He laughed at me, he listened to me, he made me feel really special.” The two were married in 2011 and joined their already-made families together, creating one.
Together with my children, we have been witness to the birth of not only her passion to make a difference but the courage she has employed to write her story, and inspire others.Like many victims of domestic violence, Sophia continued to give in to Adam’s persistence and manipulation.My wife Elin is a survivor of teen dating violence—which means she was in a relationship with someone very controlling.“Now my children are thriving, and I am growing stronger everyday, but it wouldn’t have been possible without the support of my family — my kids, my new husband, who wouldn’t harm a hair on my head, and the shelter,” she said.
Brackman was first brought to the shelter by a police officer, who was dispatched to her home for a domestic violence complaint.“I never knew the shelter existed or that domestic violence existed,” Brackman said.The annual Branch County Coalition Against Domestic Violence’s Walk a Mile in Her Shoes event, held Saturday at the Coach Eby Youth and Family Center in downtown Coldwater, offered plenty of opportunities to support the fight against violence among women and men alike.